QUESTION ONE.
When do you find men most sexually attractive?
when they're working on something. especially if they have to take their shirt off to work on it. But seriously.... focused on something important. working with their hands, using tools. playing instruments.
I am most attracted to men when they are attracted to me – eye contact, seeing desire.
QUESTION TWO.
What ass-pecs (aspects) of the male persona turn you on?
I like a man who's driven. who cares about something, could be almost anything, so long as it's important to them and they find purpose in it. talent is sexy. intelligence, knowing a lot about something. the ability to carry a conversation. I love to talk, and I love when guys want to talk with me.
physically, i like shoulders/collarbone/upper-arm area, backs, ass. mouth, eyes. oh, i always enjoy facial hair (but that may just be because i wish I had a beard.)
QUESTION THREE.
Do you generally think of yourself as more sexually dominant, or submissive?
wow, I chose some pretty difficult questions, didn't I? before I became sexually active, but after I became aware of my sexuality, (so, about ages 13-15), I was sure I'd be the dominant one. but after being in a sexual relationship where we took things a little beyond just dom/sub, I realized complete control isn't something I really like. and I do enjoy being dominated, quite a bit... Oh, i'd say I go back and forth between dom/sub. I like a good struggle anyway.
QUESTION FOUR.
When do you feel sexiest?
when i'm wearing matching underwear and high heels. get dolled up for a night out. when my hair cooperates. at parties. smoking cigarettes. when i'm horny.
QUESTION FIVE.
When do men make you feel sexiest?
when they want me. eye contact across a room. when I can see the struggle on their face. and of course, that point when they can't not kiss me.
QUESTION SIXTY-NIIIINE.
Do you ever look at pornography? If so, what kinds?
I rarely use it as a masturbation aid. I don't like putting the effort in to finding video pornography that shows me something I haven't seen before... seems like it's usually the same routine, that's boring. and it's hard for me to find porn that's not oriented towards men – and I have yet to see a guy in porn that i'm actually attracted to.
nude & fetishistic photography work better for me. or, apparently like many women, girl on girl....
QUESTION SEVEN.
Can you give me an example of men being sexually objectified?
well hopefully, by the time this project is over, I will.......
1. sexiest to me:
hairy brooklyn tattoo guy. not because he has a lot of body hair... he does have a lot, doesn't he? I don't care about that part, though. no, the reason that photo is sexiest to me is his face, for several reasons. one, because it is partially obscured, and the way his arm frames it... I don't know, for some reason that's sexy. two, because of the expression on his face.. he looks like he's enjoying something. three, because his face reminds me of someone I used to sleep with who I found incredibly sexy (nothing beyond that really worked though.)
Rob Pattinson and apple eater tie for a very close second. (I like scruffy disheveled-yet-wearing-a-tie and smoking a cigarette kinda guys.. And apple dude's eye contact/awesome upper torso).2. least sexy to me:
firefighter. I would go for the gross emo boy before that firefighter. there IS such a thing as too muscular. i'd rather see a dirty, sweaty, real firefighter.
3. oh my god. they all objectify men. this is hard. the dad, obviously, is being used, but not sexually... so not that one.... Rob Pattinson is an excellent example of the way I think men are objectified (I am mainly a Twilight fan to see shirtless supernatural men, ain't gonna lie.) But of course, the firefighter is blatantly meant to be viewed in a sexual way – so that one wins.
Now you Know.
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